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Setting Boundaries as Artists and New Parents by Alexandra Devin, LCAT, RDT

Setting Boundaries as Artists and New Parents by Alexandra Devin, LCAT, RDT

by Alexandra Devin | Apr 1, 2022 | Lifestyle, Mama Musings, Parenting, Support

I spent twelve years in the entertainment industry as an actor and playwright, and I had lousy boundaries.  Personal and professional lines get blurred frequently in the theatre, and the industry itself is rife with people who think it is just part of doing business...

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I hope this month's reflection on rejection and ne I hope this month's reflection on rejection and never getting to play your dream roles helped you. It's a journey every actor goes through, but for women, especially mothers on a career hiatus, it can be especially painful and confusing. Remember, you're more than your resume. Stay tuned for September’s reflection on (ouch) FAILURE. Look for it in a few days on the blog. . . . . . . . . . . #singathomemom #thesingathomemom #singermom #actormom #broadwaymoms #actors #actorparents #theatremom #theatermom #careerhiatus
I love this song. Pretty apt for this month's them I love this song. Pretty apt for this month's theme. #dreamroles . . . . . . . . . . #singathomemom #thesingathomemom #auditionfail #auditionrejection #dreamrole #actormom #broadwaymom #brokendreams
As a follow-up to my most recent post on not getti As a follow-up to my most recent post on not getting to play your dream roles, I’ve put together a collection of blog articles that explore rejection from school to professional productions. This is the stuff I wish I had known when I was struggling. I hope these blogs help you in your journey. Featuring pieces from @backstagecast @onstageblog, Actorhub, @ashleelynnespinosa, and @sparktheater
Reflecting on my career, I have learned to accept Reflecting on my career, I have learned to accept that some of my dream roles will forever remain a dream. Sometimes the roles we dream of playing may elude us, but finding peace with that is always within our reach. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #actormom #acting #actinglife #broadwaymom #quittingacting #quitacting #careerhiatus #singathomemom #thesingathomemom #performerlife #performer #performers #performerslife #performerparents #theatre #theatreparents #broadwayparents #dreamroles #dreamrole #dreamroleplay
***NEW POST ALERT***🎭✨ I've spilled my heart ***NEW POST ALERT***🎭✨ I've spilled my heart out in my latest blog post, and trust me, you don't want to miss it! 📖🌟 I'm taking you through my journey as an actor – from those starry-eyed days of wanting to be "on the TV" as a kid (Small Wonder, anyone?), to the reality checks, heartbreaking dreams that didn't quite pan out, and the unexpected joys that sneaked in. 🌈 Curious about how to find peace when dreams evolve and change? Want to know how I've embraced the rollercoaster ride and made the most out of every twist and turn? Well, you're in for a treat! 🎉 Let's face it, show business isn't all glitz and glamour. A lot of it is pain and disappointment. Link in bio to read the full post! 📲🕶️ #ActorLifeAdventures #BehindTheScenes #dreamsandreality #singathomemom #thesingathomemom #dreamrole #dreamroles #broadwaymoms #theatremoms #actormoms #actormomslife
As we close out the month, I leave you with these As we close out the month, I leave you with these lyrics from THE PAJAMA GAME. "I've learned my lesson Mabel, I'll never be jealous again." You stick to that now. "Absolutely." Now that's easier said than done. "I can do it." I knew it. Special thanks to Sing at Home Mom contributor Becky Potter @tinkbp for lyrics research, and by research, I mean "checking the musical theatre file cabinet in her brain because she's an MT genius" LOL Remember, your journey is unique and filled with endless possibilities. Don't let professional jealousy dim your light. Embrace the success of others as inspiration, not a threat. Celebrate their achievements, for they are proof that dreams can come true. Focus on your own growth and progress. Set realistic goals, take small steps every day, and trust in your talents. Your path is unfolding beautifully, and your time will come. Keep pushing forward, supporting one another, and nurturing your own artistic flame. You've got this! 🎭🎨✨ #BelieveInYourself #UnleashYourPotential #EmbraceInspiration #CelebrateSuccess #DreamsComeTrue #singathomemom #thesingathomemom #broadwaymoms #broadwaymamas #theatremoms #KeepPushingForward #ParentArtists #YouCanDoIt #NurtureYourPassion #UnfoldYourPath
Just a quick recap! . Understand the origins of p Just a quick recap! . Understand the origins of professional jealousy and address them effectively by reflecting on unfulfilled desires and allowing yourself to feel the emotions. . Accept that success is beyond your control and focus on your own achievements and goals, finding pride in starting a family and supporting loved ones. . Practice gratitude to shift your perspective, reflecting on your own accomplishments and nurturing an abundance mentality for personal growth. . Reignite your passion by finding moments to nurture your talent while balancing parenthood. . Set realistic goals, celebrating every inch of progress, and avoid comparing yourself to others by shifting focus to your own journey. . Celebrate your wins as both an artist and parent, reflecting on the hours, sacrifices, and hurdles overcome to pursue your dreams. . Overcome jealousy by celebrating friends' achievements, finding inspiration in their success and expressing genuine happiness for them. . Build a supportive network of like-minded actor-parents, sharing wins, stories, frustrations, and joys for liberation and motivation in balancing artistic pursuits and parenting. . . . . . . . . #ProfessionalJealousy #ArtistParents #PerformingArtistLife #ParenthoodAndCareer #OvercomingJealousy #ArtistCommunity #SupportiveNetwork #GratitudeJourney #CelebrateWins #FindYourPassion #ParentArtistStruggles #GoalSetting #InspirationForParents #ArtistLifeBalance #ArtistSupport #EmpoweredArtists #ArtisticJourney #ParentingSuccess #CreativeParenting #ArtisticCommunity #PersonalGrowthJourney #ThriveAsArtists #singathomemom #MotivationalContent #thesingathomemom #ArtistMindset #SuccessMindset
We want to hear about your support network and how We want to hear about your support network and how it has made a difference in your journey. Share your story and inspire others! 🤝 As performer-parents, we know the importance of having a strong support network. It can make all the difference in our artistic pursuits and the balancing act of parenthood. 🌟 Whether it's a group of fellow performer-parents, family members, friends, or mentors, your support network plays a crucial role in your life. 💬 We invite you to share your experience with finding a support network and how it has helped you along the way. Your story can inspire others to seek and build their own support system. 🤗 Let us know the positive impact your support network has had on your artistic pursuits, parenting journey, and overall well-being. 💪 Together, we can celebrate the power of community and encourage one another to find the support we need to thrive. 📢 Don't forget to like and share this post to reach more performer-parents who may be seeking guidance on building their support network. Let's create a web of support and empowerment! #SupportNetworks #ThrivingTogether #PowerOfCommunity #InspireOthers #ShareYourStory #PerformerParents #ArtisticJourney #ParentingSupport #BuildingConnections #singathomemom #thesingathomemom #broadwaymamas #broadwaymoms #EmpowerEachOther
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